Advanced self-care to manifest success
Love yourself with the Law of Attraction
One of the reasons I chose to write a blog post about self-love is because many people ask me in my private coaching practice “How do I receive my manifestation. What do I need to do?“
I have discovered that self-love is the key ingredient to receiving your manifestation. If you have been trying to manifest something for a very long time and it’s still not happening (which can be ridiculously frustrating, I know) then the answer lies in self-love or indeed lack of.
But what is self-love?
Self-love is learning to put you first. Not from a selfish perspective but in a way that makes you feel loved and cared for from within. That way you are more able to love and care for other people so perhaps it is selfish not to learn to love yourself? For example if you keep putting others first, on the subconscious level you are saying to yourself “I am not important and others are more important than me“. What does the Universe hear? “I am not important, give to others first”
You have heard many times that you have to learn to love yourself first and perhaps like me you may have dismissed this as an old wives’ tale? However, having been on a manifestation journey for many years, I have discovered there is more truth in this than we know. Yes, self-love is the key that unlocks major manifestations.
There is no way you can bypass this bit if you want to be a powerful manifestor. You do indeed have to learn to love yourself the way you wish others would. Where you treat yourself with love and respect and make choices in life which say “I love you and I have your back“. We often give away our power and our self-love when we put others first.
Self-love can truly leave you feeling amazing. And when you feel amazing you are in the flow and attract amazing things to you. As within, so without. Your world is a direct reflection of everything that is going on inside of you and if you are giving out loving vibes, guess what? The universe will love you straight back. Loving yourself brings about good things in all areas of your life. Yes, the universe mirrors back to you that of which you are giving out.
Many successful people talk about and embody the concept of self-love. But how do you love yourself? Simply put it’s about treating yourself right. Putting your needs first. Essentially you need to become the most important person in your life. Showing yourself that your needs to do matter and that your well-being matters. That your happiness matters.
Many people say I will be happy when…
By constantly putting your happiness outside of yourself is disempowering you and when you are disempowered, you are not a powerful energy to attract good things and make the law of attraction work in a BIG way in your lives. With any powerful manifestation the power has to come from within you. You have the ability to stir up an incredible energy inside of you which becomes a strong magnet for your desires just through self-love. So in essence when you give your power away to other people, you don’t have enough power within you to conjure up enough energy to attract the things you want and in your life. If you want to create manifestations that are long lasting, you need to love yourself first.
You can even manifest self-love and use the Law of Attraction for self-love.
But how do I love myself?
Listening to your body and getting plenty of rest if you’re feeling tired
Eating food that makes you feel good and energised. Food that keeps you healthy and well.
Creating opportunities for yourself and learning new skills
Choosing a career path that lights you up and makes you happy
Surrounding yourself with people that make you feel good and look after relationships which are important to you
Reading/listening to self-development books
Having fun and trying new things
Meditation, mindfulness, relaxation
Exercise
Speaking kindly to yourself
Take actions that support your mental health, your physical well-being, your emotional needs and your spiritual aspect of yourself.
Find out what you love and start doing it! By doing this you are saying to yourself “I matter, I am important, I am worthy “the universe responds by sending you people, circumstances and events that match this new uplifting vibration.
Where can I love myself a little more?
When you don’t practice self-love, you may find yourself slip into feelings of depression and anxiety. Life generally tends to feel like a darker place and as a result you may tend to display destructive behaviour. Whether it be drinking excessively, eating excessively or even gambling and suchlike. Simply put, a lack of self-love and respect is a law of attraction blocker.
When you love and appreciate yourself, you attract more things in life to love and appreciate. Simply put what you give out you get back.
The law of attraction will always be hard if you don’t like yourself, so self-love is an almighty step up on the vibrational ladder.
Unlock the power of love within you.
By asking these questions you start to get the answers on how to unlock your self-love magic power within you.
Take a few minutes to ponder on the questions below and journal any insights you get in the spaces provided.
Where am I currently not loving myself?
Where do I criticise/scare myself?
How can I be kinder to myself?
Where am I too hard on myself?
How can I be kinder to myself?
What are the things that I like to do?
How can I make time to do these things more?
What are the things that make me feel loved and nurtured?
How can I make time to do these things more?
What are the things that make me feel happy?
How can I make time to do these things more?
Remember, if there are things in your personality that you have become aware of that you would like to improve on then that’s okay. Please be nice about it. Don’t tell yourself that you are a failure, or you are stupid. Stop criticising yourself straight away and let the love flow in to unlock BIGGER and BOLDER manifestations than ever before.